12 Mar How to Know What You Want | Feel Good Friday’s W/ Liv Teixeira
Welcome back to another episode of “Feel Good Friday’s W/ Liv Teixeira.” On this episode, Liv eplains how to figure out exactly what you want out of this life.
Liv talks about how we can only begin to believe that we can achieve our dreams, if we are crystal clear about what those dreams are.
What Do You Want?!
Our host, Liv, says that you really have to get good at asking yourself questions.
Just like Noah asks Allie in “The Notebook” you must get serious and ask yourself, “What do you want?” When it comes to manifesting the life that we want, we must first know what matters most to you in all areas of life. After all, it is hard to get the most out of your life if you don’t know what you want.
Creating the life you want to live has to start with gaining clarity on the things that you want. What makes this lifetime purposeful for you? This question is important because a purposeful life can look different to everyone, and that’s okay.
Is it relationships, careers, experiences? The answers will, and should, be different for everyone, but be sure to define happiness for YOU.
Questions to Ask Yourself
Ask yourself questions about all aspects in your life.
What do I look for in a significant other? Ask things such as what are their core values, what do they like to do for fun, what do they do for a living? You don’t have to be the same as your significant other, but you should have an idea of the traits that you value in a person.
Next, think about your career, you lifestyle, the things on your bucket list.What kind of career excites you? Who do you want to be? What do you want to see?
What activities bring you the most joy? Some people want to go skydiving, while some people want to meet their favorite celebrity. These are all valid, as long as you know what you want.
You can reinvent, you can change, you can grow, but you have to be willing to put in the work, and the work starts with becoming clear with yourself about the things that you are hoping to get out of this life.
Believing in Yourself
Once you are clear on the things that you want, then we can start believing in ourselves. When we have clarity that we can believe without a shadow of a doubt that these things will come true.
Believing in yourself still comes along with some work. It includes, positive self talk, having a plan, working on insecurities, and showing up for yourself.
On the next episode Liv will talk more about how to believe in yourself.
What are some of the things that make you feel most fulfilled in life? Drop a comment below and let us know!
Be sure to check out our previous episode of “Feel Good Friday’s W/ Liv Teixeira” where Liv talks about career and identity!